{"id":7483,"date":"2025-01-13T17:40:03","date_gmt":"2025-01-13T17:40:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sciencesandnatures.com\/?p=7483"},"modified":"2025-01-13T17:40:03","modified_gmt":"2025-01-13T17:40:03","slug":"my-boyfriend-always-forgets-his-credit-card-when-we-eat-out-so-i-have-to-foot-the-bill-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sciencesandnatures.com\/my-boyfriend-always-forgets-his-credit-card-when-we-eat-out-so-i-have-to-foot-the-bill-2\/","title":{"rendered":"My boyfriend always \u2018forgets\u2019 his credit card when we eat out, so I have to foot the bill"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>I am sure it has happened to most of us to forget out wallet and a credit card while out with family, friends, or our partner, but if that \u201cforgetting\u201d keeps repeating over and over again something isn\u2019t right.\n\n\n\n</p><p>A woman took to&nbsp;<a href="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/www.reddit.com%5C/r%5C/AmItheAsshole%5C/comments%5C/xwjxbw%5C/aita_for_getting_up_and_walking_out_of_the_diner%5C/%5C%22">Reddit&nbsp;to ask fellow netizens if she was in the wrong for refusing to pay for her boyfriend and his children\u2019s meal for God knows which time after he forgot his credit card yet again.\n\n\n\n<p>Sharing her story, she explained that she and her boyfriend had been dating for nine months. He had two daughters from a previous relationship who loved dining out.<img decoding='\"async\"' src="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/go.ezodn.com%5C/utilcave_com%5C/ezoicbwa.png%5C%22" alt='\"Ezoic\"'>\n\n\n\n</p><p>The four have been eating out once a week, and her boyfriend always forgets his wallet, which leaves her paying the bill for everyone every single time.\n\n\n\n<figure class='\"wp-block-image\"'><img decoding='\"async\"' src="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/boreddaddy.com%5C/wp-content%5C/uploads%5C/2024%5C/10%5C/pexels-photo-8346921.jpeg?ezimgfmt=rs:470x705%5C/rscb2%5C/ng:webp%5C/ngcb2%5C%22" alt='\"\"' class='\"wp-image-67940\"\/'>\n\n\n\n<h2 class='\"wp-block-heading\"' id='\"h-the-last-time-they-decided-to-go-out-she-texted-him-to-remind-him-to-bring-his-wallet-but-he-laughed-it-off\"'>The last time they decided to go out, she texted him to remind him to bring his wallet, but he laughed it off.\n\n\n\n</h2><p>Once at the restaurant, the children started ordering the priciest items on the menu. Before they started eating, the woman asked her boyfriend if he had his&nbsp;<a href="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/boreddaddy.com%5C/my-in-laws-started-forgetting-to-take-their-wallets-to-restaurants-since-i-got-my-inheritance%5C/%5C%22">wallet&nbsp;with him. He looked at her kind of shocked and started searching his pockets after which he said, \u201cGuess I forgot it in the other pair of jeans that I thought I was going to wear\u201d then asked her to foot the bill \u201cjust this time.\u201d<img decoding='\"async\"' src="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/go.ezodn.com%5C/utilcave_com%5C/ezoicbwa.png%5C%22" alt='\"Ezoic\"'>\n\n\n\n<p>At that moment, she felt like she had it enough, grabbed her bag, and got up.\n\n\n\n<figure class='\"wp-block-image\"'><img decoding='\"async\"' src="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/boreddaddy.com%5C/wp-content%5C/uploads%5C/2024%5C/10%5C/pexels-photo-3434523.jpeg?ezimgfmt=rs:470x705%5C/rscb2%5C/ng:webp%5C/ngcb2%5C%22" alt='\"\"' class='\"wp-image-67941\"\/'>\n\n\n\n<p>When he asked her where she was going, she said she wasn\u2019t paying \u201cthis time AGAIN\u201d and to enjoy his dinner with the kids.<img decoding='\"async\"' src="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/go.ezodn.com%5C/utilcave_com%5C/ezoicbwa.png%5C%22" alt='\"Ezoic\"'>\n\n\n\n</p><p>Later, he called her and accused her of having no sympathy for his kids. Apparently, he was forced to cancel everything and take his kids home hungry.\n\n\n\n</p><p>\u201cWe got into an argument and he\u2019s been mad at me about it since then saying things like how he needs to take a look at how I\u2019m treating the kids specifically and how I was willing to let them go hungry with my selfishness,\u201d the woman concluded her post, asking if her action was wrong.\n\n\n\n</p><p>Redditors agreed that she wasn\u2019t in the wrong because it was obvious he \u201cforgot\u201d hos wallet on purpose and was using her.\n\n\n\n</p><p>\u201cNTA. Sweetie you need to dump the loser. He will bleed your dry for the rest of your life and belittle you,\u201d a commenter wrote. \u201cNTA. This guy is a manipulative AH. Red flags left and right. ETA: you\u2019re my hero for walking out. Had you stayed he would have gaslighted you into paying. This is a situation he created,\u201d another added.\n\n\n\n</p><p>What are your thoughts on this?\n\n\n\n</p><p>Please SHARE this article with your family and friends on Facebook.\n\n\n\n</p><p>Love and Peace&nbsp;\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"</p><div class='\"mh-excerpt\"'><p>I am sure it has happened to most of us to forget out wallet and a credit card while out with family, friends, or our <a class='\"mh-excerpt-more\"' href="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/sciencesandnatures.com%5C/my-boyfriend-always-forgets-his-credit-card-when-we-eat-out-so-i-have-to-foot-the-bill-2%5C/%5C%22" title='\"My' boyfriend always his credit card when we eat out so i have to foot the bill>[&hellip;]\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sciencesandnatures.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7483"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sciencesandnatures.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sciencesandnatures.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sciencesandnatures.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sciencesandnatures.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7483"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/sciencesandnatures.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7483\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7484,"href":"https:\/\/sciencesandnatures.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7483\/revisions\/7484"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sciencesandnatures.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7483"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sciencesandnatures.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7483"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sciencesandnatures.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7483"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}</a></p></div></figure></p></a></p></figure></p></a></p>