{"id":6589,"date":"2024-12-12T18:09:51","date_gmt":"2024-12-12T18:09:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sciencesandnatures.com\/?p=6589"},"modified":"2024-12-12T18:09:52","modified_gmt":"2024-12-12T18:09:52","slug":"i-learned-my-husband-mocks-me-in-front-of-his-friends","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sciencesandnatures.com\/i-learned-my-husband-mocks-me-in-front-of-his-friends\/","title":{"rendered":"I learned my husband mocks me in front of his friends"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>I always felt like Jake and I were a team. Whenever there was a decision to be made, we worked together, and I believed that was our superpower. Well, it was like that until I learned my husband mocks me in front of his friends and the entire online community.\n\n\n\n</p><p>When our daughter was born, who is autistic and needs the type of attention and care the kindergarten couldn\u2019t provide, Jake and I decided it would be for the best if I quit my high-paying job in marketing and be with Lily.\n\n\n\n</p><p>The thought of being a stay-at-home mom scared me. I loved my job and everything about it, but Lily was more important than anything.\n\n\n\n</p><p><a href="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/go.ezodn.com%5C/ads%5C/charity%5C/proxy?p_id=e83c502c-b439-46f7-6370-f949b3e66f85&amp;d_id=79196&amp;imp_id=4555639335073447&amp;c_id=1084&amp;l_id=10016&amp;url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazonconservation.org%2Ftake-action%2Fdonate%2F&amp;ffid=1&amp;co=XK%5C%22">\n\n\n\n<p>At first, I had a hard time getting used to the new life, but over time, I learned to enjoy the baking, the cooking, and the work around the house.\n\n\n\n<figure class='\"wp-block-image\"'><img decoding='\"async\"' src="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/boreddaddy.com%5C/wp-content%5C/uploads%5C/2024%5C/12%5C/ea3204d31dc09e69e4aee1ead3e41cf2947f14257984f339a74c9d10c4e74650-683x1024.webp%5C%22" alt='\"\"' class='\"wp-image-69396\"\/'><figcaption class='\"wp-element-caption\"'>Pexels\n\n\n\n<p>Jake was thankful for the sacrifice I made for the sake of Lily, or at least that\u2019s what I thought.<img decoding='\"async\"' src="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/go.ezodn.com%5C/utilcave_com%5C/ezoicbwa.png%5C%22" alt='\"Ezoic\"'>\n\n\n\n</p><p>One day, while vacuuming his home office, I noticed his computer was on and his Twitter feed was open. I glanced at the screen and the word \u201c#tradwife\u201d caught my attention.\n\n\n\n</p><p>There were photos of me pulling cookies from the oven, baking, and a lot more.<img decoding='\"async\"' src="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/go.ezodn.com%5C/utilcave_com%5C/ezoicbwa.png%5C%22" alt='\"Ezoic\"'>\n\n\n\n</p><h2 class='\"wp-block-heading\"'>As I scrolled further, I learned my husband mocks me online, presenting me as a cheerful, traditional homemaker who gave up her career willingly and replaced the office for the kitchen.\n\n\n\n<figure class='\"wp-block-image\"'><img decoding='\"async\"' src="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/boreddaddy.com%5C/wp-content%5C/uploads%5C/2024%5C/12%5C/0ab513d0243d79587be3abb823380ed08439a136ddd8a14aa7c0928fa49200ab.webp%5C%22" alt='\"\"' class='\"wp-image-69397\"\/'><figcaption class='\"wp-element-caption\"'>Pexels\n\n\n\n<p>Photos of me with the apron on kept popping up as I scrolled through his account. Not once did he mention that the real reason behind my decision to be a stay-at-home mom was because of our autistic daughter.\n\n\n\n</p><p>I felt betrayed. Anger settled in my heart.\n\n\n\n</p><p>I took a bunch of screenshots from Jake\u2019s humiliating posts and confronted him.\n\n\n\n</p><p>get the BEST stories to you inbox!\n\n\n\n<figure class='\"wp-block-image\"'><img decoding='\"async\"' src="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/boreddaddy.com%5C/wp-content%5C/uploads%5C/2024%5C/12%5C/bbddf379c23840b4b2b25cc45bc0dbd2cb2da22acbcbd7f80faacc27227c217b.webp%5C%22" alt='\"\"' class='\"wp-image-69398\"\/'><figcaption class='\"wp-element-caption\"'>Pexels\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cWhy would you stereotype me for strangers\u2019 likes and comments, Jake?\u201d I asked, crushed.\n\n\n\n</p><p>He tried to defend himself, saying those were just silly posts. He didn\u2019t mean it was anything serious, he just had fun online and never meant to hurt my feelings.\n\n\n\n</p><p>\u201cNo, Jake, you disrespected the sacrifice I am making for this family and a simple sorry isn\u2019t enough,\u201d I said, feeling hurt and humiliated.\n\n\n\n<figure class='\"wp-block-image\"'><img decoding='\"async\"' src="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/boreddaddy.com%5C/wp-content%5C/uploads%5C/2024%5C/12%5C/019c67529db4c782923796771ca357d97e3dfa436d35dde92acd631d030263bf.webp%5C%22" alt='\"\"' class='\"wp-image-69399\"\/'><figcaption class='\"wp-element-caption\"'>Pexels\n\n\n\n<p>He took his phone out and deleted his Twitter account, but the damage was already done.<img decoding='\"async\"' src="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/go.ezodn.com%5C/utilcave_com%5C/ezoicbwa.png%5C%22" alt='\"Ezoic\"'>\n\n\n\n</p><p>I wanted everyone to know what my husband thought of everything I did for the family so I posted the screenshots of his posts on my Facebook account. \u201cEver discover your husband mocks you behind your back to his friends?\u201d I captioned the post.\n\n\n\n</p><p>As expected, my friends and family messaged me and called me on the phone to make sure I was okay.\n\n\n\n</p><h2 class='\"wp-block-heading\"'>Now, it was Jake who was humiliated for treating me the way he did.\n\n\n\n<figure class='\"wp-block-image\"'><img decoding='\"async\"' src="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/boreddaddy.com%5C/wp-content%5C/uploads%5C/2024%5C/12%5C/3d157a0f7253dbe095b4ea69969536052b92377f19507a0ed324a3f1ce7e96aa.webp%5C%22" alt='\"\"' class='\"wp-image-69400\"\/'><figcaption class='\"wp-element-caption\"'>Pexels\n\n\n\n<p>He begged me to forgive him, but I couldn\u2019t, at least not right away.<img decoding='\"async\"' src="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/go.ezodn.com%5C/utilcave_com%5C/ezoicbwa.png%5C%22" alt='\"Ezoic\"'>\n\n\n\n</p><p>It took a lot of time before I started trusting him again.\n\n\n\n</p><p>Please SHARE this article with your family and friends on Facebook.\n\n\n\n</p><p>Love and Peace\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"</p><div class='\"mh-excerpt\"'><p>I always felt like Jake and I were a team. 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